Feeling Stressed or Worried?



Counselling and Psychotherapy can really help. I often work with individuals who want help with Stress, often caused by a major life change or a decision that's been difficult to make. Therapy can support individuals by working through Stress, enabling clarity and problem solving.

If you are suffering with Stress or Worry and think you would benefit from some support get in touch at www.impactnorthwest.co.uk



Emma Appleby is the Clinical Director of Impact North West, providing:- Counselling, Psychotherapy and Coaching to Adults and Adolescents.

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